Patrick Morley

Patrick Morley

Nine Things You Need to Know to "Pastor" Men Effectively

Much has been made about the "men problem." You can hear about it on Oprah. You can read about it in USA Today. You can watch the destruction it creates with Dr. Phil.


School teachers can barely educate on the heels of it. Social services are overwhelmed as a result of it. Divorce courts are at capacity

How to Make Major Decisions

During the course of a year most of us only make two or three truly major decisions. These might include whether or not to change jobs, which job to take, whether or not to move to another city or across town, how many children to have, which church to attend, what kind of personal ministry to undertake, what kind of car

Racial Profiling We do not know each Other

The Gates/Crowley clash is the most recent, but hardly the worst, example of the racial tensions that still haunt us.


Recently I asked several black friends, "Have you ever been racially profiled?"


Each of them laughed and said, "Of course!" I interpreted that to mean, "Did you

The Existance of God

I thought this might help you as you share your faith.


In the movie Contact scientist Jody Foster asks, "What makes more sense? That an all-powerful, mysterious God created the universe and then decided not to give any proof of his existence? Or, that he simply doesn't exist at all, and we created him so we wouldn't have to feel so small and alone."

How to Determine your Spiritual Gifts

The following comments were made during a small group meeting I attended with a number of godly men. They are typical of the comments Christian men everywhere are making:


"I finally have peace in my career. I want to do more for Him."


"I just turned 40. I've been in the

Finding Grace in a Spiritual Crisis?

Recently I went through a spiritual crisis. It was of the 90 day variety, but nevertheless intense. This issue of A Look in the Mirror contains entries from my journal during that period. Why? Because I love sharing the lessons I'm learning, and relearning, with you, my brothers.

Introducing the Church as a Learning Center

Jim said, "I prayed to receive Christ 18 years ago. I then joined a church because I thought that was what I was supposed to do. But nothing happened, and I pretty much went on with life as before. Then, about three years ago I really started to grow. Now my family is clicking. I love life. Christ has become very real to me.

Why Aren't More Men Leading Powerful, Transformed Lives?

Early in the history of The Man in the Mirror Bible Study, a Table Leader at one of our leader meetings presented a bizarre situation. He told us about a man at his table who faithfully attended every Friday morning. But then on Friday nights he hit the topless bars and partied hard all

A Mans Guide to Fathers Day

Guess what? Not this year. This year let's bless our fathers! "What?" you say. "You obviously don't know my father!" Don't have to. Heard it before. Been through it myself.


In 1926, when my Dad was two years old, the youngest of four children, his father abandoned him. It is something from which our family lineage has still not fully

Understanding Where Men Are and How to Reach Them

A CHURCH was having its annual men's retreat. A few of the men from the leadership team became a sub-committee to organize it. They set some goals:


Reach out to men who didn't traditionally attend their church's events.


Help men get to know each other

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