7 Ways to Save Your Marriage

Your mate tells you they don't love you anymore, asking for time to "find" themselves. Maybe you've just traced the clues leading to finding your mate has been having an affair. Maybe you're well past an immediate crisis, and now face an impending court date legally ending your marriage.

Wait. Slow down. Unless you stop and consider everything, you may begin

 Your mate is having an affair with your best friend or someone else. Your mind races, your emotions range from maddening frenzy to abject panic. You can't eat, sleep or think straight.

Nothing is as painful as an affair. You trusted someone with

Understanding the Shadow Side of Your Man

"When it's good, it's really good," Cassie said to me recently, tears running down her face. "But when it's bad, it's really bad. It's like he's two different men. What do you mean? I asked.

"I swear he's two different men," she said insistently. "There's a switch that seems to go off inside him. One minute